10/13/08

Hating is so not cool

Although this top is tacky-licious, this is the way I'm feeling towards some people right now. Style Nosh and College Fashion did excellent posts on haters, mainly style haters. Sigh. Out of all of the things to worry about in life, people choose to waste their energy hating on one's personal style. Pathetic, pathetic, pathetic. Are you a victim of style haters or are you the perpetrator?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

StyleNosh's post talks about how women who dress up often become the subject of cattiness or mean comments from others. I think it points to how casual our work environments have become over the years.

But with so many fashion blogs devoted to making fun of women who don't care too much about their outfits (often out of choice, not ignorance) or post "fashion blunder" pictures of others, maybe the reverse cattiness and judgement is not so unexpected, after all? If you want others to stop hating you for being stylish, start by returning the favor - don't silently or openly criticze others' fashion choices, don't make fun about others behind their backs and don't presume that you are an authority on fashion. People have different definitions of style and imposing your rules on others' is bound to invite retaliation.

Poster Girl said...

Too much time and energy is wasted on trash talking and negativity. People should focus on being positive and uplifting, and remember what your mom (should have) told you - if you don't have anything nice to say...